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How Not To Kiss
Just as important as learning the right way to deliver an amazing kiss is learning the things to avoid doing and so you don't become an example of how not to kiss. For your convenience, I've made an easy list of things that both guys and girls may do that will definitely turn your kissing partner off. Also, because I don't claim to know all the different terrible kissing mistakes people can make, I will be asking some of friends around campus about the worst kissers they've had, and what made them so bad.
1. Too much saliva/slobbering/moisture. Out of all the people I asked, this is the one that came up again and again. Swallow your spit! Take a moment to lick your lips so they aren't too dry, but otherwise, keep that moisture in your mouth, or down your throat!
2. Closing your eyes too early. If you do this, you run the risk of miscalculating, bumping noses, faces, teeth, awkwardness. Just keep your eyes open until right before you meet.
3. Opening your eyes while kissing. DON'T open your eyes while you are kissing. I know it's tempting, and I know you probably will anyway, but you can't run the risk of opening your eyes and have them catch you staring at them. It freaks people out, both male and female.
4. Being overly aggressive with your lips. Nothing spoils a kiss better than an overaggressive kisser with stiff lips. Keep your kisses relaxed and loose. Don't tighten face. This will make you seem tense and not confident, when you really want to be relaxed and confident.
5. Being overly aggressive with your tongue. Don't use your tongue like a spear! Keep it soft and flexible. Don't use your tongue like a snake, swirling around in your partner's mouth. Just relax your tongue, if you do indeed use it for kissing, and let it gently tangle with your partner's tongue.
6. Moving too quickly. The best way to spoil a great kiss or kissing opportunity is by advancing its timing too quickly. Sometimes, the first date just isn't the right time for a kiss. Sometimes, you should wait until you are out of the store. Sometimes, your overzealous excitement to kiss can have a rather negative impact on the success of the kiss. let it flow naturally, and it will feel so much better.
7. Go in biting heavy. Unless you talked about this with your partner before you tried it, heavy biting is almost always a bad idea. A little nibbling or light grazing with the teeth can be okay, just avoid chomping down.
8. Giving a dog bath. Many people are guilty of this. Do NOT use your tongue on any part of your partner's face except their mouth. Many guys make this mistake, and think that licking a woman's cheek, chin, or nose is somehow sexy. It's not.
9. Fish kissing. Make a face like a fish. You know, with your lips sticking out. Now open and close them like a beached fish that can't breathe on land. Never do this while kissing. Keep your lips relaxed and open. (Submitted by Justine
10.Touching their teeth with your tongue. Don't try to clean their teeth, or move your tongue under their upper lip.
11. Having bad breath, or having junk in your teeth. C'mon...that's just a given. If you have been eating strong tasting foods, pop a mint (unless your partner has been eating the same foods of course). If you have a chance, just excuse yourself to the bathroom and make sure your teeth are ok and you don't have something funky stuck in them.
12. Not moving the rest of your body. Remember, the other parts of your body contribute just as much as your lips and tongue to successful kissing. The hands should be active, the body should be active. Shift positions. You don't want your partner to think you're a wooden doll.
Now you know how NOT to kiss. For information on how TO kiss correctly, check out my articles on How to Make Out and How to Kiss The Neck Good Luck!
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Monday, March 23, 2009
Friday, March 20, 2009
How to Kiss Good: Sexy Secret Spot
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Hi everyone. So this is a bit of a weird topic, but I've had personal experience with it working enough so that I had to share it. When you are learning how to kiss, good thing to do is to identify for the person your with, their sexy secret spot. It might pay to ask them, and it might be best to let it be..discovered.
Secret Spot?
The secret spot I have personally had the most success with is...drumroll please...the EARS!
Yes that's right, the ears, on the side of the head, are in a perfect location to be kissed while necking or making out, and what's more, a lot of people like it!
Be Careful
Not everyone appreciates or has such sensitive ears. It's probably best to clear it with your partner before you go ahead and start kissing their ears. What you can almost certainly do, however, is use your sexiest whisper when you talk into their ear. Even better, just a moist breath of air can be enough to drive your partner crazy.
And Finally
Put your tongue in the ear. Yes you heard me. At first you may think it sounds strange. Well let me ask you, has everyone ever done it to you? If not, then I don't want to hear about how weird it is. Again, this is not for everyone, but for the people that it IS for...man-oh-man. This is so sexy. Guys, girls, doesn't matter. Kiss the outside of the ear. Lick the ear if you're feeling a little daring, and then stick your tongue into their ear. It will feel weird at first, and then it will just start feeling good.
And What if they Don't Like It...?
Then find something they DO like! They agreed to start making out with you! You're already doing alright. Now you have to find that little thing you can do that will just drive them crazy. It varies from person to person. Something like the ears may work for one person, and if may be eyelash kisses for someone else. Experiment! Have fun when you kiss!
Check out my most recent post about How to Make out Good.
Hi everyone. So this is a bit of a weird topic, but I've had personal experience with it working enough so that I had to share it. When you are learning how to kiss, good thing to do is to identify for the person your with, their sexy secret spot. It might pay to ask them, and it might be best to let it be..discovered.
Secret Spot?
The secret spot I have personally had the most success with is...drumroll please...the EARS!
Yes that's right, the ears, on the side of the head, are in a perfect location to be kissed while necking or making out, and what's more, a lot of people like it!
Be Careful
Not everyone appreciates or has such sensitive ears. It's probably best to clear it with your partner before you go ahead and start kissing their ears. What you can almost certainly do, however, is use your sexiest whisper when you talk into their ear. Even better, just a moist breath of air can be enough to drive your partner crazy.
And Finally
Put your tongue in the ear. Yes you heard me. At first you may think it sounds strange. Well let me ask you, has everyone ever done it to you? If not, then I don't want to hear about how weird it is. Again, this is not for everyone, but for the people that it IS for...man-oh-man. This is so sexy. Guys, girls, doesn't matter. Kiss the outside of the ear. Lick the ear if you're feeling a little daring, and then stick your tongue into their ear. It will feel weird at first, and then it will just start feeling good.
And What if they Don't Like It...?
Then find something they DO like! They agreed to start making out with you! You're already doing alright. Now you have to find that little thing you can do that will just drive them crazy. It varies from person to person. Something like the ears may work for one person, and if may be eyelash kisses for someone else. Experiment! Have fun when you kiss!
Check out my most recent post about How to Make out Good.
Monday, March 16, 2009
How to Kiss Good | How to Kiss Neck
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Now that you've mastered the basics of kissing, and learned how to get your first kiss and how to make out good, you can branch out into other areas of kissing that will be very pleasurable for you and your partner. In this section of How to Kiss Good, I will talk about How to Kiss Neck.
Why the Neck?
The neck is one of the most sensitive parts of the human body, and because it is very close to the face and mouth, where kissing starts, it's a good place to move to when making out becomes boring. In some cases, you may even want to START by kissing the neck, for example, when you are dancing. More on this later.
Good for Both Sexes
The best part of neck kissing, or 'necking' is that both girls and guys can appreciate it. Many guys are aware that girls like getting their necks kissed; few girls realize that guys really enjoy it too! I love it when a girl takes the initiative to go ahead and kiss my neck. It's a very intimate action, and it feels amazing!
A Simple Technique
Kissing the neck is really easy. Just take your partner's chin in your hand, and tilt it back until you have access to the underside of their chin. Use your lips and tongue to kiss the softest parts of their neck. Make the kisses a little wetter than usual. Don't be sloppy though! Try kissing along the chin line, or the soft area below the ear. Experiment with kissing up and down the throat. Generally, if your partner leans their head back, closes their eyes, and/or makes a sighing sound, you're doing it right.
Finding the Best Spot to Kiss
At the base of the neck is a hollow spot just before the collarbone that is very soft and sensitive also. Finding the best spots to kiss on your partner's neck is really a matter of trial and error. For me, I always knew I had found a good spot if my partner gave vocal confirmation of pleasure (sighing or moaning). Guys, don't be afraid to sigh your pleasure also, as this will tell your girl that she is doing it right. In general, both sexes should give each other lots of positive feedback, especially when trying something new that you would like to do again.
Other Things to Remember
Guys: If you have facial hair, be careful not to let it scrape up against the girl's throat, as this is a very soft area of skin, and you could leave an uncomfortable scratchy sensation.
Both sexes: Remember, if you kiss too hard, or suck/bite at your partner's neck, you will leave what is called a hickey or love-bite. This can be a sometimes embarrassing reminder of your encounter. It's probably best to discuss with your partner whether or not it's ok for you to leave a hickey.
That's It!
As you can see, it's really easy to improve your kissing abilities so that your partner will remember you as the best, most exciting and fun kisser they've ever had. Keep on it, and you'll be on your way to kissing stardom in no time. With your expanded of knowledge of how to kiss neck, you are now equipped to take on more interesting challenges. See you next time!
Check out my most recent post about How to Make out Good.
Now that you've mastered the basics of kissing, and learned how to get your first kiss and how to make out good, you can branch out into other areas of kissing that will be very pleasurable for you and your partner. In this section of How to Kiss Good, I will talk about How to Kiss Neck.
Why the Neck?
The neck is one of the most sensitive parts of the human body, and because it is very close to the face and mouth, where kissing starts, it's a good place to move to when making out becomes boring. In some cases, you may even want to START by kissing the neck, for example, when you are dancing. More on this later.
Good for Both Sexes
The best part of neck kissing, or 'necking' is that both girls and guys can appreciate it. Many guys are aware that girls like getting their necks kissed; few girls realize that guys really enjoy it too! I love it when a girl takes the initiative to go ahead and kiss my neck. It's a very intimate action, and it feels amazing!
A Simple Technique
Kissing the neck is really easy. Just take your partner's chin in your hand, and tilt it back until you have access to the underside of their chin. Use your lips and tongue to kiss the softest parts of their neck. Make the kisses a little wetter than usual. Don't be sloppy though! Try kissing along the chin line, or the soft area below the ear. Experiment with kissing up and down the throat. Generally, if your partner leans their head back, closes their eyes, and/or makes a sighing sound, you're doing it right.
Finding the Best Spot to Kiss
At the base of the neck is a hollow spot just before the collarbone that is very soft and sensitive also. Finding the best spots to kiss on your partner's neck is really a matter of trial and error. For me, I always knew I had found a good spot if my partner gave vocal confirmation of pleasure (sighing or moaning). Guys, don't be afraid to sigh your pleasure also, as this will tell your girl that she is doing it right. In general, both sexes should give each other lots of positive feedback, especially when trying something new that you would like to do again.
Other Things to Remember
Guys: If you have facial hair, be careful not to let it scrape up against the girl's throat, as this is a very soft area of skin, and you could leave an uncomfortable scratchy sensation.
Both sexes: Remember, if you kiss too hard, or suck/bite at your partner's neck, you will leave what is called a hickey or love-bite. This can be a sometimes embarrassing reminder of your encounter. It's probably best to discuss with your partner whether or not it's ok for you to leave a hickey.
That's It!
As you can see, it's really easy to improve your kissing abilities so that your partner will remember you as the best, most exciting and fun kisser they've ever had. Keep on it, and you'll be on your way to kissing stardom in no time. With your expanded of knowledge of how to kiss neck, you are now equipped to take on more interesting challenges. See you next time!
Check out my most recent post about How to Make out Good.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
How to Make Out. Good Time to Learn!
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So now that you've read all about how to get your first kiss you want to learn how to make out. Good question! Keep reading, and this very important aspect of kissing will be yours to master!
Making out is one of the best things about having someone to kiss. Although a lot of people take making out for granted, and think it's pretty easy, there are actually quite a few things to keep in mind to remember when making out to maximize the experience. There's nothing like being a good kisser to real maximize your chances with learning How to Get a Girlfriend. No girl (or guy for that matter) is going to want to get into a relationship with you if your first kiss sucks. That's sort of a barometer for the rest of the relationship!
First, you should be in a kissing position. If you aren't yet, refer up to my top guide about how to get your first kiss. When you feel the the kiss has gone on long enough, it's time to begin the making out motions. It's very important to establish a kissing rhythm. Kiss your partner's lips over and over again. Keep your mouth slightly open. The tongue should come out slightly. For a more in-depth guide to using your tongue, I'll eventually post a guide on how to french kiss. For the best lip movements and usage of the tongue, I have discovered a very simple, easy to remember word that mimics the act of kissing perfectly.
This word is olive.
Think about. When you say the word "olive", your mouth opens slightly, the tongue comes forward, pokes out, pulls back in, and the lips close. Imagine you are saying the word "olive" over and over again. This is basically the motion for making out! Make sure you don't actually say the word olive when you are making out, because your partner will probably think you're weird! Also, you don't want to be breathing into their mouth just yet.
Once you get into a rhythm, it's time to think about what the rest of your body is doing. When it comes to making out, the most important parts of your body other than your lips are your hands. The best place to put your hands while you are making out is close to their face. In general, the side of the face, the neck, and the soft area near the ear are the best spots to put your hands, because they are very sensitive. While you kiss, make sure not to forget your hands! They can be very valuable for increasing the intensity of a kiss. Later, we'll discuss other things you can do with your hands while making out ;)
Try not to place you our your partner's necks into awkward positions while you make out. Also, don't stay in one position for long. Switch sides. Try kissing different parts of their lips. Sometimes, if you've been kissing the top of their lips for a while, switching to the bottom lip can stimulate nerves that they had forgotten about. Shift your neck angle so that your lips meet in different positions. Experiment. Have fun! For a great video tutorial on how to kiss someone passionately, check out this great youtube video. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ej0p72KvA6I
Beware not to bump teeth! If you do, just do like the video says, and laugh a little, and keep on kissing! Alright, now you know how to make out. Good luck! :)
DON'T FORGET: Check out my review of Kissing 101, a new information guide for learning about how to make out.
NEW: UPDATE: Check out my review of Kissing 101, a new information guide for learning about how to make out.
So now that you've read all about how to get your first kiss you want to learn how to make out. Good question! Keep reading, and this very important aspect of kissing will be yours to master!
Making out is one of the best things about having someone to kiss. Although a lot of people take making out for granted, and think it's pretty easy, there are actually quite a few things to keep in mind to remember when making out to maximize the experience. There's nothing like being a good kisser to real maximize your chances with learning How to Get a Girlfriend. No girl (or guy for that matter) is going to want to get into a relationship with you if your first kiss sucks. That's sort of a barometer for the rest of the relationship!
First, you should be in a kissing position. If you aren't yet, refer up to my top guide about how to get your first kiss. When you feel the the kiss has gone on long enough, it's time to begin the making out motions. It's very important to establish a kissing rhythm. Kiss your partner's lips over and over again. Keep your mouth slightly open. The tongue should come out slightly. For a more in-depth guide to using your tongue, I'll eventually post a guide on how to french kiss. For the best lip movements and usage of the tongue, I have discovered a very simple, easy to remember word that mimics the act of kissing perfectly.
This word is olive.
Think about. When you say the word "olive", your mouth opens slightly, the tongue comes forward, pokes out, pulls back in, and the lips close. Imagine you are saying the word "olive" over and over again. This is basically the motion for making out! Make sure you don't actually say the word olive when you are making out, because your partner will probably think you're weird! Also, you don't want to be breathing into their mouth just yet.
Once you get into a rhythm, it's time to think about what the rest of your body is doing. When it comes to making out, the most important parts of your body other than your lips are your hands. The best place to put your hands while you are making out is close to their face. In general, the side of the face, the neck, and the soft area near the ear are the best spots to put your hands, because they are very sensitive. While you kiss, make sure not to forget your hands! They can be very valuable for increasing the intensity of a kiss. Later, we'll discuss other things you can do with your hands while making out ;)
Try not to place you our your partner's necks into awkward positions while you make out. Also, don't stay in one position for long. Switch sides. Try kissing different parts of their lips. Sometimes, if you've been kissing the top of their lips for a while, switching to the bottom lip can stimulate nerves that they had forgotten about. Shift your neck angle so that your lips meet in different positions. Experiment. Have fun! For a great video tutorial on how to kiss someone passionately, check out this great youtube video. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ej0p72KvA6I
Beware not to bump teeth! If you do, just do like the video says, and laugh a little, and keep on kissing! Alright, now you know how to make out. Good luck! :)
DON'T FORGET: Check out my review of Kissing 101, a new information guide for learning about how to make out.
How to Kiss Good: The First Kiss
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So for your first kiss, you have to know how to kiss good in a first date context: It's the moment. The date has gone perfectly, or maybe it's still in progress. You and your date are cuddled up cozily, watching a movie, in front of a bonfire, or just hanging out doing something fun. I don't need to supply a date for you, just a moment for the kiss. You start to feel like it's time that you should do something. For some reason, all you can think about is the other person's lips. You have a couple of options when it comes to how to get a first kiss. You are definitely only limited by your imagination. Here is my favorite method:
The Direct Approach: Although this is not necessarily the most classy way of getting a kiss, it's definitely cute, they'll appreciate your directness, and best of all, it has never failed to work for me. You don't have to ask them for the kiss. Here's what you do: Just wait until they mention something that doesn't seem very important. Pretend you weren't listening, and then apologize, and say "I'm sorry, I'm having trouble focusing, because all I think about is kissing you right now".
Say it softly, while looking into their eyes, if possible. Smile a little bit to show your sincerity. This line is solid gold. If you are a girl, and you say this to a guy, he'd better better start kissing you right now. If he isn't, maybe you aren't giving off the right signs that you want to be kiss and you need help figuring out how to get a guy to kiss you. I'll post a link soon about how to give off good body language to show that you are ready to be kissed. If you are a guy, and you say this to a girl, she'll probably melt right there in your arms, and you'll be able to tell.
From there, maintain direct eye contact. While you have eye contact, place one or two fingers under their chin and lift their face into an appropriate position. Then, lean in slowly. If they lean in also, don't seem to want to pull away, and/or close their eyes, you're good to go! Tilt your face slightly so your noses won't bump, and move your face into their. Don't close your eyes until the last second.
The kiss should be very soft, very tender, very gentle. It is, after all, a first kiss, and should be treated respectfully. Let it last a few seconds, then pull back and open your eyes. Let them open their eyes, and meet yours. Then you can decide whether or not to continue to make out. Later, I'll post an article about how to make out.
Hope this helps you aspiring kissers out there. Make sure to leave a comment and tell me if this helped you to get the confidence for your first kiss, and how it went. Don't be shy! They probably want to kiss you just as much as you want to kiss them. Get out there and do it, cause now that you know your first kiss, you are on the right path to learning how to kiss. Good luck!
Check out my most recent post about How to Make out Good.
So for your first kiss, you have to know how to kiss good in a first date context: It's the moment. The date has gone perfectly, or maybe it's still in progress. You and your date are cuddled up cozily, watching a movie, in front of a bonfire, or just hanging out doing something fun. I don't need to supply a date for you, just a moment for the kiss. You start to feel like it's time that you should do something. For some reason, all you can think about is the other person's lips. You have a couple of options when it comes to how to get a first kiss. You are definitely only limited by your imagination. Here is my favorite method:
The Direct Approach: Although this is not necessarily the most classy way of getting a kiss, it's definitely cute, they'll appreciate your directness, and best of all, it has never failed to work for me. You don't have to ask them for the kiss. Here's what you do: Just wait until they mention something that doesn't seem very important. Pretend you weren't listening, and then apologize, and say "I'm sorry, I'm having trouble focusing, because all I think about is kissing you right now".
Say it softly, while looking into their eyes, if possible. Smile a little bit to show your sincerity. This line is solid gold. If you are a girl, and you say this to a guy, he'd better better start kissing you right now. If he isn't, maybe you aren't giving off the right signs that you want to be kiss and you need help figuring out how to get a guy to kiss you. I'll post a link soon about how to give off good body language to show that you are ready to be kissed. If you are a guy, and you say this to a girl, she'll probably melt right there in your arms, and you'll be able to tell.
From there, maintain direct eye contact. While you have eye contact, place one or two fingers under their chin and lift their face into an appropriate position. Then, lean in slowly. If they lean in also, don't seem to want to pull away, and/or close their eyes, you're good to go! Tilt your face slightly so your noses won't bump, and move your face into their. Don't close your eyes until the last second.
The kiss should be very soft, very tender, very gentle. It is, after all, a first kiss, and should be treated respectfully. Let it last a few seconds, then pull back and open your eyes. Let them open their eyes, and meet yours. Then you can decide whether or not to continue to make out. Later, I'll post an article about how to make out.
Hope this helps you aspiring kissers out there. Make sure to leave a comment and tell me if this helped you to get the confidence for your first kiss, and how it went. Don't be shy! They probably want to kiss you just as much as you want to kiss them. Get out there and do it, cause now that you know your first kiss, you are on the right path to learning how to kiss. Good luck!
Check out my most recent post about How to Make out Good.
Monday, March 9, 2009
How to Kiss Good: About Me
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You're here cause you want to learn how to kiss better. I can help with that. I'm not gonna saying I'm the end-all kissing expert, because I'm not. I can, however, get the kiss that I want, when I want it. I know how to make it seem easy. I know enough to be able to talk about it, and help out you guys and girls who are having problems.
Who am I? I am a college student in Atlanta, Georgia. I am a guy who has kissed a lot of girls, and who knows a thing or two about how to do it. On this site, you'll find information about how to get your first kiss, how to become a better kisser, and how to branch out to kissing other parts of the body besides the lips.
I realize that the title of this site is how to kiss good. This is of course, a grammatical mistake. It should be how to kiss well. That doesn't really matter for you though. You got to this site, because you searched how to kiss good in google, or yahoo, and you don't really care how to say it right. You need help kissing!
The best feedback I ever got about kissing was from ex-girlfriends. After you break up, and particularly if you aren't very friendly, is the best time to get an honest opinion about your relationship from your ex-partner. I was always told that I was a very good kisser, even as I was told all the other things that were wrong with me :S.
This is my first post, but there will be many more to come. My first information post will be a short how to on how to approach your first kiss, so stay tuned for that. Feel free to leave comments and send messages if you have any questions. I'm looking forward to having a lot of fun with this site, while teaching you guys how to get those kisses that you've been craving. See ya on the other side! :)
Check out my most recent post about How to Make out Good.
You're here cause you want to learn how to kiss better. I can help with that. I'm not gonna saying I'm the end-all kissing expert, because I'm not. I can, however, get the kiss that I want, when I want it. I know how to make it seem easy. I know enough to be able to talk about it, and help out you guys and girls who are having problems.
Who am I? I am a college student in Atlanta, Georgia. I am a guy who has kissed a lot of girls, and who knows a thing or two about how to do it. On this site, you'll find information about how to get your first kiss, how to become a better kisser, and how to branch out to kissing other parts of the body besides the lips.
I realize that the title of this site is how to kiss good. This is of course, a grammatical mistake. It should be how to kiss well. That doesn't really matter for you though. You got to this site, because you searched how to kiss good in google, or yahoo, and you don't really care how to say it right. You need help kissing!
The best feedback I ever got about kissing was from ex-girlfriends. After you break up, and particularly if you aren't very friendly, is the best time to get an honest opinion about your relationship from your ex-partner. I was always told that I was a very good kisser, even as I was told all the other things that were wrong with me :S.
This is my first post, but there will be many more to come. My first information post will be a short how to on how to approach your first kiss, so stay tuned for that. Feel free to leave comments and send messages if you have any questions. I'm looking forward to having a lot of fun with this site, while teaching you guys how to get those kisses that you've been craving. See ya on the other side! :)
Check out my most recent post about How to Make out Good.
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