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What Does Your Kissing Intensity Say?
You might not have realized it, but you can convey a lot about your personality and intentions by how you approach a kiss. Many people (men AND women) will make assumptions and judgments about how you kiss, especially a first kiss.
Slow Kisses
Soft kisses create a sweeter, softer, gentler interaction. They are most suitable for a first kiss. Their slow interplay of give and take, the soft interaction of your lips brushing against each other, shows a sensitive, emotional, personality that is in touch with the sensuality that should be present in kissing. This is a good way to start any kind of kissing, just because you can't go wrong with it. When you are learning how to kiss passionately, you'll probably need to start with slow kisses. The only time it might be a problem really, is when your partner starts to get bored, and the kissing gets predictable, so you might need to move on to...
Fast Kisses
Hard fast kisses immediately create a air of urgency to the kissing, especially if you start doing them suddenly out of slow kisses. It tells your partner "I'm really into this now" and it makes them more likely to get into it too. Make sure you don't start out with these too quickly, especially if you were building up with slow, teasing kisses. Once you start fast and hard kisses, you can choose what to from there. Sometimes it goes back to soft, slow kissing. Sometimes it moves onto to other things. When you are kissing fast, make sure to increase the pressure you apply with your lips, and be sure to use your hands more actively than you did when you were kissing slowly.
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Tuesday, May 5, 2009
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This advice is so good :) i have a problem though: how do i let him know that i don't mind wandering hands and that i would'nt mind them wandering a bit more? I'm really stuck on this one - please help! Your blog is awsome by the way!
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My suggestion for how to tell a guy you wish his hands would wander..hmm. This is an easy one.
While you're making out, you can always tell him. You can also tell him after you make out, or while you're talking later. Just suggest to him that you won't mind if his hands were to get a bit more...active.
That's the passive approach. Many guys just don't want to offend a girl by moving too quickly, but then don't know what time is a good time to get more physical.
The aggressive approach? While you're making out, take his hand with your hand and place it where you want it to be. It's as simple as that. You can even hold his hand there to really assure him that it's ok and you want him to touch you. It's incredibly sexy for the guy when a woman is confident like that and it definitely tells your guy that you're ok with him doing more stuff with his hands. :)
I hope this answers your question (although I'm sure you've figured it out on your own by now) and any other questions readers might have.
Ok so I know this is kinda off topic but I will admit it, my I have a low confidence level. So how do I tell the guy I like, that I like him without sounding totally retarded? That's a big one for me, another way off topic thing. How do I get r.... Ya know what never mind on that one, put do plzz help on the first one!!
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